SQUARTING: A PLEASURE VERY FEW TRULY UNDERSTAND 

Sexual pleasure is not just a physical experience; it’s emotional, psychological, and deeply personal. Among the many expressions of pleasure, squarting is one that often sparks curiosity and fascination. For some, it feels mysterious. For others, it feels empowering. And for many, it’s simply something they want to understand better.

This guide is written to help you feel informed, confident, and positive about squarting, without pressure, shame, or unrealistic expectations.

WHAT IS SQUARTING?

Squarting refers to the release of fluid from the urethra during heightened sexual arousal or orgasm in some women. It is a natural bodily response that can occur when the body is deeply relaxed and stimulated.

Rather than being something to “achieve,” squarting is best understood as one of many ways the body may respond to pleasure.

• It happens naturally for some people

• It may happen occasionally or regularly

• It may never happen at all, and that is completely normal

Squarting is not a measure of sexual satisfaction; it is simply one possible expression of it.

WHY SQUARTING FEELS MEANINGFUL TO MANY PEOPLE

For those who experience it, squarting is often described as emotionally freeing. It can feel like letting go completely, physically and mentally, without fear or control. This sense of release is why many people associate it with intimacy and trust.

It’s not about performance. It’s about comfort.

• It can feel emotionally liberating

• It often happens when someone feels safe and relaxed

• It may strengthen feelings of closeness with a partner

The emotional environment matters just as much as physical stimulation.

THE SCIENCE BEHIND SQUARTING

From a scientific perspective, squarting is linked to sexual arousal and specific glands within the body. Research suggests that during intense stimulation, the bladder fills rapidly, and fluid may be released alongside secretions from the Skene’s glands (sometimes called the female prostate).

Understanding the science helps normalise the experience and removes unnecessary fear.

• The fluid is usually clear and odourless

• It may contain diluted urine mixed with glandular fluid

• The process is involuntary and arousal-driven

Science supports what many bodies already know: this response is natural.

SQUARTING VS SQUIRTING: UNDERSTANDING THE TERMS

The words squarting and squirting are commonly used to describe the same experience. While some educators attempt to distinguish them, most people use the terms interchangeably.

What’s more important than terminology is understanding that these experiences are valid and normal.

• Both terms refer to fluid release during arousal

• There is no “right” or “wrong” label

• The experience matters more than the name

Your body doesn’t need perfect language to express pleasure.

WHO CAN EXPERIENCE SQUARTING?

Squarting is not limited to a certain body type, age, or level of sexual experience. Some people experience it early in life, while others discover it later, or never at all.

Every body has its own language of pleasure.

• Some experience squarting easily

• Some experience it rarely

• Some never experience it and still enjoy fulfilling intimacy

Pleasure is personal, and comparison only steals joy.

THE ROLE OF RELAXATION AND EMOTIONAL SAFETY

One of the most important factors in squarting is not technique, it’s how safe and comfortable a person feels. The body responds most openly when the mind is calm and free from pressure.

Creating the right emotional environment allows pleasure to unfold naturally.

• Feeling relaxed encourages deeper arousal

• Emotional trust reduces physical tension

• Letting go mentally often leads to stronger sensations

Pleasure grows where acceptance lives.

CAN SEX TOYS SUPPORT SQUARTING EXPERIENCES?

Sex toys can be beautiful tools for exploration, not because they force results, but because they help people connect with their bodies more intentionally. When used with curiosity and patience, toys can enhance arousal and comfort.

The best toys are those that feel supportive, not overwhelming.

TYPES OF TOYS OFTEN LINKED TO SQUARTING

Different bodies respond to different sensations. These toy types are commonly associated with deeper internal stimulation.

• G-spot vibrators that follow the body’s natural curves

• Dual-stimulation toys that offer layered sensations

• Pulsation toys that feel rhythmic rather than intense

• Soft, body-safe materials that encourage relaxation

The focus should always be on comfort, not intensity.

CLEARING UP COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS

Squarting is often surrounded by myths that can create confusion or pressure. Replacing misinformation with understanding allows people to approach pleasure with confidence instead of expectation.

Truth brings freedom.

• Squarting is not required for good sex

• It does not indicate “better” orgasms

• It is not something everyone will experience

• It cannot be forced or trained

Real pleasure is felt, not proven.

SQUARTING AND INTIMACY

For couples, squarting can sometimes deepen intimacy, not because of the physical act itself, but because it requires communication, trust, and patience. When partners approach intimacy with openness rather than goals, connection naturally strengthens.

Intimacy grows in moments of shared understanding.

• Honest communication builds comfort

• Mutual respect reduces pressure

• Emotional closeness enhances physical pleasure

The experience matters more than the outcome.

EMBRACING PLEASURE WITHOUT PRESSURE

The most important thing to remember is that your body is not broken if it doesn’t respond a certain way. Squarting is neither a destination nor a requirement; it’s simply one expression among many.

When pleasure is approached gently, it becomes more meaningful.

• Focus on sensation, not results

• Stay present in the moment

• Trust your body’s natural responses

Pleasure is a journey, not a checklist.

HOW KAAMASTRA HELPS YOU EXPLORE PLEASURE NATURALLY

Exploring intimacy becomes more fulfilling when you feel supported by tools designed with care and understanding. This is where Kaamastra plays a meaningful role. With a focus on body-safe materials, ergonomic design, and sensual comfort, Kaamastra products are created to help individuals and couples explore pleasure without pressure or expectation.

Rather than promising outcomes, Kaamastra supports the process, helping you feel relaxed, confident, and connected to your body. Whether someone is curious about new sensations or simply wants to deepen their intimate moments, Kaamastra encourages pleasure that feels natural, empowering, and deeply satisfying.

Because true pleasure isn’t about achieving something, it’s about allowing yourself to feel it fully.